Key to Avoid Pain at the First Night

Most women feel pain at first intercourse. But sex on the first night is not always painful if the technique is done on both sides right. To avoid pain, women need psychological readiness and stimulation of telling. When having sex for the first time, there are women who feel pain in the vagina some are not. The difference lies in how much lubrication is produced and how tense Hymen (the hymen) the woman during intercourse. Hymen hymen is a membrane or membrane that protects the front of the vagina. The hymen can be torn not only by sexual intercourse, but also because of riding or an accident that injured area. Pain in the vaginal area can also occur when fluid lubrication is not out. Of lubrication in women only go out if he feels aroused, but if he is under stress or tension, the liquid will not come out.

Andrology and sexologists, Prof. Dr. Dr. Wimpie Pangkahila, SpAnd, FAACS say that the pain should not come during sex if the woman is ready and horny. "The point is not just a matter of ready or not ready and stimulated or not stimulated alone. If she was ready and excited, definitely not going to hurt," said Prof. Pain during intercourse can also be prevented if the man was in no hurry to penetrate. "We recommend that you set the position well, even better if the woman who directs. If he is too excited to penetrate while the woman is not ready, there can be bleeding due to tearing of the hymen," explained the doctor who earned his sexologists from the University of Washington, USA.

But that should be known, tearing of the hymen does not have to remove the blood. "A torn hymen is not always characterized by bleeding. If during the penetration of a woman feel relaxed, stimulated and fluid lubrikasinya out then there will be no bleeding," said Prof Wimpie. According Wimpie, when a woman is aroused, blood flow will flow quickly and smoothly. This causes the blood vessels dilated, including blood vessels in the vagina. Widening is what determines whether or not the hymen tense. The hymen is not tense will be easily accessible without removing the penis with blood. So if a woman does not bleed during the first night, my husband do not jump to convict and suspected that his wife was not a virgin.

"It's good like that, do not hurt or bleed. Women may not bleed during penetration and her hymen was torn," said the doctor who earned his sexologists from the University of Washington, United States. If it does not bleed, it means the man was able to stimulate a woman properly. To avoid pain during intercourse, Professor Wimpie suggested that both parties understand each other. Men do not be hasty and women should prepare themselves. Do not forget to do foreplay (heating) starting from the lightest such as hugging, kissing, touching, massaging and so forth.