Whisper Therapy Helps Couple More Intimate

If you want to stay healthy and lasting relationship, you should get used to communicating with a low tone and a little whisper. Psychologists suggest to use this technique if the couple whispering, especially the female partner is angry or there is a problem. Whisper in the ear can cause a soothing sensation of warm and soothing. "When couples difficulty in communicating, whispering techniques can help. With a whisper, someone will give greater focus to be able to listen to what you hear whispered to him. That way, the words will be easier to get into the brain and the communication will happen more effectively," said Kerry Daynes, psychological and relationship consultant, as quoted from the Telegraph.

Whisper therapy has proven successful implementation of the Hollywood stars, such as Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie are reportedly often whispers 'I miss you' while sitting side by side or when walking, Bradd suddenly whispered something in her left ear Jolie. Whispering thoughts in public trust as a technique that can bind the couple. According to the singer Madonna, this therapy was first allegedly introduced by Kaballahh, a prominent mystic philosophy which is not much known. Whispering technique is very easy to do, ie, every 15 minutes the couple looked at each other, no need for long an important eye clashing. Then with a gentle touch, bisikkanlah into his ear a word that is on your mind at the time, even better if you say what makes you attracted to him or words to that nice couple.

"The strength of this whisper whisper technique actually adopted from the mother to her newborn baby. Low tone and touch of the sensor is a fastener inner hearing and contain a very strong emotional element," explains psychotherapist spouse, Hettie Hunter. Whispering also could be one way to restore the harmonious relationship as when the current honeymoon. "It will create the atmosphere of intimacy. But the power of a whisper rather than just on the words alone, but from a distance proximity to the ear. So when whispered, get as close as possible to remain sound and more intimate," said Dayness. A study done by researchers from Sam Houston University, Texas showed that emotional words will have more power when prompted on the left ear. Meanwhile, no word or message is emotional, such as instructions or directives should be whispered into the right ear. It relates to the ability of right brain that controls emotions and the left brain that controls logic.

Although this technique is very easy and simple, but it took courage and commitment to continue to do so. "Yes, this is a simple strategy. Couples who have difficulty communicating should try this technique or visiting consultants to learn how to argue with your partner, listen and advise without criticism or offer solutions without nagging," explained Dayness.