1. Fear of cellulite visible if the light is on
Most women choose the room lights off on the touch. "Women fear that if the lights are on, cellulite on her body will be seen by the couple. But the woman does not know is that men just like a woman's body as it is, whether it exists or without cellulite. They were happy to see her naked partner," said an expert on sex, Debby Herbenick, PhD. But if women still do not feel confident with her body, lit candles can be a better alternative.
Women fear that if the smell in the vagina smell like rotten fish. But for a woman to clean the area properly, there was no need to worry. "Even a healthy body also have a smell. That smell that comes out that is pheromone hormones, which can attract the attention of men," says psychotherapist, Tina Tessina, PhD. If the smell at the bottom of it caused by the fungus, then women need to fear.
The average woman mengeluarjan gas or fart 14 times a day. But what if it coincided with the time farting during sex? Women fear that if that happens, the couple will illfeel and become lazy in touch. But according to Dr. Tessina, do not let it ruin your sex and your partner. "Do not forget that we are human too. We can fart anytime and anywhere, so the couple should be informed and confident woman. Make it as a joke, because during sex, even jokes are needed," he explained. Still, it's good to avoid foods that can produce gas before having sex or taking anti-gas medication if it is a disease.
"If a woman is afraid her partner could not satisfy, you should tell him frankly," said Dr. Herbenick. Words like 'I want to satisfy you but I am afraid not because they have not experienced' make male partners can receive the woman they are even assured that he certainly can.
"Many of my female patients who feel uncomfortable sat perform oral sex. She worried about cleanliness, smell or even a disease that can be contracted from the action," said psychologist from Florida, LeslieBeth Wish, Edd. But he said, women should not be afraid to overdo it. "A lot of techniques that can be done during oral sex and always make sure that part is clean," he said.
Inevitably, women will lose lubrikannya in vaginal fluid. It was because of breastfeeding and the menopause. "So if it is dry, make sure to always provide lubrication fluid bottles are sold in the market today will have sex," explained Dr. Herbenick.
Some of the women there who actually amused when touched by a partner, and if it is too far, it becomes no longer sexy in the eyes of men. Therefore, do not let her touch make you giggle because it tickled because it will actually damage the mood. "Try to train couples to stimulate the touch of a less intriguing and more gentle," explained Dr. Herbenick.
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Women Afraid to Farts When Making Love
Rather than fear can not reach orgasm, fart is one of the dreaded woman during lovemaking. In addition to fart, there is still fear more that make women reluctant to engage in sex. Anything? Quoted from Womansday, here are 7 things that make women fearful and reluctant to engage in sex.
2. Fear of the bottom scent
3. Fear of farting during intercourse
4. Fear not satisfy a partner
5. Fear of having to perform oral sex
6. Fear of dry vagina
7. Fear amused by a touch mate
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